Giving and creating are the same thing.
Once you allow your mind to embrace this, you fain access to your internal power and abundance.
If you struggle with abundance, there is a contraction within your bodymind that stops your life energy from flowing freely.
Usually, the contraction is subconscious, unseen, unacknowledged and very reactive.
And this contraction usually revolves around boundaries around giving/receiving. What this means is that we are born to give and receive. This is a very natural energy flow. We give and we receive at the same time. Yet, it has nothing to do with energy exchange. It has everything to do with creation. When you give or receive, you need to be equal to what you interact with.
So, if you give or receive, you do create the needed equality for the interaction to occur: it is you who generates the results of this act. When you give, you co-create what you give and you co-create what you receive in return.
Since we tend to perceive the act of giving and receiving as separate, we do not notice how much we are actually involved in this influential energy dance. And to see them as one is to regain our own ability to create what we experience.
Because no one can take from you without your involvement. Without you knowing - yes. But you are always a part of this. And you can look at your involvement and allow yourself to reinvent the way in which you interact. There will be some traumatic tension release, yes. And there will be continuous life energy flow at your disposal as soon as you recover.
So, how to do it step by step.
You start to perceive and name what you create: what you give (known) and what you receive (unknown).
You make choices, try to be receptive and take your response-ability seriously.
You learn where the contractions are. This is the crucial step. To sum this article up: you learn to what extend you give with ease and where your boundaries are. What are those boundaries.
You allow space for those boundaries. You crumble your ego’s appropriate idea of selflessness. This opens the life force flow at new levels. This is where your internal energy leveling happens.
You allow struggle and re-creation of your self-image in the light of life force flow. When you see the contraction - you acknowledge it as an existing boundary of your currwnt self. This is the way to expand - from real, existing levels of free flow. Once you accept the low rise, once you sit with the idea that there is contraction, your bodymind starta to release the tension. Completely by itself. This is how life energy flows. If your bodymind can focus in real here and now (and not the idea of it), you are home.
Therefore, I invite you to the celebration of every contraction you notice: every “greedy", “filthy", “sad", “depressing" thought about giving and receiving. Once you know that thos are gatewaya to your power, you may pay close attention to them. Without false separation of judgemental attitude or condemnation. Those boundaries are real but the moment you experience them as parts of your self, they start to integrate and merge with your intended expansion towards freedom that is called everpresent abundance 🌹